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Post by rightrein92 on Mar 21, 2011 14:33:42 GMT
as if being at uni isant as stressfull enough im trying to plan my wedding,move house and get my horses into show condition and the mother in law to be is proving a nightmare..... cant understand that my horses come first no matter what !they were there first and even though they are " usless animals that should only be bred for meat and glue" her words not mine! they are the main part of my life and i adore them all....................any help?
sorry for the rant i just dont want to upset anyone unecessarily x
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Post by bow1607 on Mar 21, 2011 16:24:10 GMT
Personally I would tell the wicked witch too p**s off  How dare she! Unfortunately there are clueless/thoughtless/mindless idiots everywhere, and it doesn't matter what you say, you won't change her mind. I would just give her as little details about what is going on in your life as you can, and try not to mention the horses infront of her as she will use them as a tool to wind you up even more! Good luck xxx |
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Post by brindlerainbow on Mar 21, 2011 16:45:36 GMT
Not sure I would be wanting to marry into that family!!!!!! Tell her very firmly to shut her mouth as what she says is of no interest to you!!!!!!
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Post by rightrein92 on Mar 21, 2011 17:04:03 GMT
my fiance is lovely and so is the rest of his family it just shes out to make it as hard as she can for me shes rather overprotective of her son, but my horses mean the world to me and always come first and she plays on that x
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Post by mcw on Mar 21, 2011 17:31:42 GMT
tell her to shut up! she has no idea about how fantastic the horse is, the bond they have with their rider is unbelievable, and if she can't understand that then FAIL! you are marrying in to her family whether she likes it or not, so tell her to put some effort in or shut up!
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Post by rightrein92 on Mar 21, 2011 17:42:03 GMT
i dont want to have a go at her as i dont want to cause trouble  i just want an easy life with my horses and my OH ............ thanks for the support x |
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Post by ladywell on Mar 21, 2011 17:43:55 GMT
I wouldn't tell her to shut up - that will just cause more arguments. Agree to disagree at the moment and then, in due course, let her know how much your horses mean to you. You are taking her 'little boy' away from her and she probably thinks he is going to play second fiddle to a horse!! We, on here, know that he will, but there is no need to tell her (or him) that!! Good luck with the wedding. ;D ;D
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Post by Julie(luke3) on Mar 21, 2011 20:04:34 GMT
I would get her to come and meet your lovely horses! Tack one up, put some GLUE on the saddle and stick her on it!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Sorry I couldn't resist  I know all about Mother In-laws  Good luck xxx |
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Post by pencaedu on Mar 21, 2011 21:08:49 GMT
Can't wait to see you trying that one Lukey
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Post by Julie(luke3) on Mar 21, 2011 21:10:20 GMT
Can't wait to see you trying that one Lukey ;D ;D ;D I would need a bloody crane first!!!!  |
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Post by hatman on Mar 21, 2011 21:50:10 GMT
PMSL luke xx
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i just want an easy life with my horses and my OH ............
