This forum?

[myhorselizzie]

Hi

I dont usually get involved with moaning, but i think this forum is getting rather bit*hy.
I read on posts adults having a go at children and adults having a go at adults.
I once replied not taking sides and got accused of being a friend of the person everyone disliked and being on the wrong side, however i was just making a point and seeing both sides.
I also read on one of the for sale ads, adults calling a child who advertises for her friend a dealer as she is selling horses? Surely most of you have sold more than 1 horse at one point? I also read people saying ALL the young people should get their own forum. Why? Why should young people have to have their own forum, what are they doing wrong? Im 15 (age wrong on here before you ask ) and i surely dont think im doing any harm and i dont think its fair that adults are doing this, but they dont only do it to children.
Adults also bit*h amongst themselves - arn't you adults meant to be the ones who show the way to the younger generation, what can you expect if you yourselves are doing this?

So rather than bit*h, why doesn't everyone grow up, act their age and act in a mature manner so this forum can be a pleasant place for all ages?
Thanks

[thecremellosociety]

havent seen many bit*hy posts recently, they are normally nipped in the bud, but do agree posts etc can go that way rapidly, its can seem to get very out of hand very quick, and not all people think before they type ( me included dropped myself in it many a time for a innocent comment!)

The way this whole world is going, showing and life in general, there are many people who need to grow up and be nice to one another for a change, im pretty nice to anyone, but belive you me it gets you nowhere in this life, i sometimes think i may be a bit*h for a day and see if life gets any easier, but i wouldnt be comfy and it wouldnt be me, its the day and age that we live in, Noticed my son pulling the spoilt bratt routine on me more recently and ive nipped that in the bud,

Just the worls as it is nowadays i think ..... ( off to stop my incessant ramblings and lock myself back up )

[ellieraga]

myhorselizzie i can see what you are saying but i think you should read OVERBENTS comment under HELP WANTED AGAIN, which is an ad placed under jockey wanted , and then maybe you will see what sort of problem is occuring, also for your information i have only ever sold one pony in my life and i have since brought it back so it could retire with us !!! and yes everyone does have a b**** as you put it but i dont think its no different to slating people behind there back at a show , unfortunatley that is life and can see from your comments you are obviousley mature for your age but not all teenagers are

[myhorselizzie]

i see what you both mean,
ellieraga, i see my mistake about the selling thing, and ill amend it, ive just worded it wrong, sorry x
thank you

[Giddie]

MYHORSELIZZIE.......have to say l think it is couragous of you to come on here and speak in a way that would put a lot of the adults to shame..Well done for airing you views..and l really do think in some cases you have a valid point.

[lucretia]

myhorselizzie

please dont think the bit*hing is always the intention of the person starting the thread, sometimes they "hijack" peoples posts using them as an excuse to air their dissatisfaction with showing or just life in general.Maybe the person bit*hing sees a chance to moan or have a go because of the way the thread is going, and cant moan or complain openly elsewhere. I know it sounds like making excuses but would hate one so young to lose faith in people cos of a few unhappy individuals. Your comments show how strongly you feel about this so hope you feel better having got it off your chest. you sound a very nice,mature person for your age and we need people like you to keep posting and offer us oldies some other viewpoints than our own world weary tired, fed up and disillusioned ones. (not me of course just won £5 on a scratch card!!)

[myhorselizzie]

ray thank you - i know its you
Lucreatia im not saying it is always the person who posts the thread, however i respect your comments. Thank you for your lovely comments, and well done on your little win

[myhorselizzie]

because of some pm i have got - i understand this is a minority and not the majority ;D