HELP?

[Jessiccaa]

I really dont know what to do,
We recently messaged a woman about her horse for loan and we sorted it all out to go and see it. The day came when we were meant to look at it and she text saying could we re arrange it. We re arranged it and on the day we were meant to go she said she was ill again and said she would give us a ring. It is now a week since she text us and we have tried messaging her ringing her and more. Is she genuinley ill or is she just messing us around The pony had an advert for it to be put out on loan or to be sold, she has took the loan advert off but kept the for sale advert on. This was possibly a loan wvtb but dont know what to do now?

[nia2311]

I would give a deadline for contacting you (e.g. a week) and if you still hear nothing, I'd keep looking. I take it you haven't committed any money to this deal? If the seller is a member on here, you could ask the Mods for help too.

[Jessiccaa]

Hi thanks for that, we have decided to give her another week then we will leave it. We have seen a couple of horses that we like.

[miffed]

I've messaged about loads recently on here that have come to nothing, two people haven't even replied and another sold the pony the day we should've been going to view it, others then change their mind and decide the pony either has to stay on.their yard or decide to sell and not loan, etc etc, I give up! It's a good job I'm not in a rush!

[Jessiccaa]

I know how you feel, what really makes me angry is when on the ad it says 'no timewasters' yet they are the ones timewasting by not getting back in touch when i could be looking for another pony. It isn't on here that i have seen the pony, it is somwere else, and i sent the message to her on monday, went on on tuesday to find no reply, yet she had been on and updated the ad

[kayjayem]

Forget it and move on! Obviously she can't make her mind up so no point wasting your time over her dithering.

[miffed]

The ones I messaged about were all on here :-( The way I look at it is that it was never meant to be for whatever reason ;-)

[viking]

I think the lady is probably having difficulty making up her mind about selling.
I would forget it.

[jessicca]

Do you think we should message her perhaps in a few days time and just say that it would be nice if she would have messaged us, or should we just leave it?

[Milliesmum]

Just leave it. Not worth the hassle.

[quintet]

Leave it and concentrate on arranging to see the others that you like.

[seles]

Not ment to be something else will come along