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Post by chalky284 on Jan 21, 2013 1:36:29 GMT
I would either end it and move on or if you want to give him a chance, tell him how you feel and give him an ultimatum. Life is too short for people to hold you back xxx
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Post by lottiechad on Jan 22, 2013 9:55:37 GMT
Do what makes you happy. Completely agree with above reply xxx
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Post by lfd on Jan 22, 2013 10:25:25 GMT
Aw i can really sympathies with you. I'm going through a break up with my partner at the moment and its absolutely killing me. I know its the right decision but it is so so hard.
Long term we want different things and although it doesn't seem it now it will be easier to end it now than it would in a couple of years down the line.
Its really tough but i think if your having doubts then you should walk always and let your boyfriend and yourself move on.
Sorry if Ive just waffled on! my heads up my backside at the moment.
Hugs and hope you sort it xxx
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Post by rightrein92 on Jan 22, 2013 17:29:26 GMT
If you have given him that many chances I'd move on even if you trail a break and readdress if you still want to end it in a months time or something x
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Post by chloep89 on Jan 22, 2013 19:47:46 GMT
Thanks guys....... We have broken up and we are both in pieces  Keeping strong x x |
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Post by rightrein92 on Jan 22, 2013 20:13:40 GMT
Oh I hope your ok feel free to pm me If you need someone to talk to xx
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Post by Deleted on Jan 22, 2013 20:15:32 GMT
Chin up it will feel like s**t at first but you will realise you've done the right thing. Took me two attempts with my ex and in the end I thought, do you know what, i feal like crap but I can please myself now and look forward to things and not feeling down all the time. It gets better xxxxx
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Post by activerider on Jan 22, 2013 20:25:21 GMT
Ditch him and go with your instinct
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Post by 09rebel99 on Jan 22, 2013 20:29:05 GMT
I think you have done the right thing. My OH is 12 years older than me and has a pretty decent paying job. When we first met he said he was going to get his own house as he lived at his mums, nothing happened for nearly 3 years!!! Anyway we now have a house but I had to do EVERYTHING to get it!! 1 things for sure all the bills go out of my account and he gives me money every week as I don't trust him when it comes to money!!
I feel very trapped sometimes but I have a lovely home, 2 lovely dogs and I do love him even though he can be an arse so know how hard it must be for you xx
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Post by clueless on Jan 23, 2013 10:08:13 GMT
life is too short if your thinking about it then you already know the answer... i was with my ex for years and felt trapped but just got used to it and thought it was normal! One day I drove a extra junction on the motorway so I didnt have to go home... and realised how unhappy i was. I left him shortly after and it was one of the hardest thing I ever did... But the BEST! Im now sooooo happy and realise what a proper relationship should be like! dont settle for the person you can live with go for the one you cant live without! Please dont make do everything happens for a reason even if the break-up is tough each day that passes is another step forwards. x
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