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Post by Emma R on Dec 2, 2008 17:11:26 GMT
Not happy with mine at the moment as you probably will have guessed. Will start at the beginning... Didnt see him all yesterday cause i was off school then at night dad wouldnt let me out cause we had my little sister on our own and shes been clingy with mum alot lately (she is 19months) so i was like OK will text Glenn and tell him. But he was out of credit, i already knew that though. Then today, school was snowed off (  ) so left him all day so he could go and see his mates and have snow ball fights, you wouldnt think he was 16! Then phoned him at about 4ish so see if he was coming out - he was at his mates playing Xbox. Thought 'fair enough' and told him to come down soonish but dont hurry or anything. Phoned him again at like 4.50 and he was having a snowball fight and for me to go down. I hate snowball fights and he knows I do  and he said he isnt 'staying in' tonight cause the snow is too much fun! Not happy with him and he will know it soon enough!!! Rant over  |
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Post by emmar on Dec 2, 2008 17:13:33 GMT
i came up as a guest  |
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Post by shelleyj on Dec 2, 2008 18:42:48 GMT
He's 16 and playing - its a boy thing!! Learn to love it cos it doesn't get any better!!!
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Post by emmar on Dec 2, 2008 23:49:53 GMT
He's 16 and playing - its a boy thing!! Learn to love it cos it doesn't get any better!!! He bucked up his ideas when i threatened to finish with him for f*****g me about. He says he loves me though, has done on may occasions...  |
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Post by Milliesmum on Dec 3, 2008 8:13:02 GMT
Emma, go out and have fun, see your mates, ride, whatever. You might find him a bit keener if you're not sitting there waiting for him to be available! Let him see you have a busy life and that you'll see him when you have time.
They're sometimes a bit dim these men (not all of them, don't smite me!), but you might find a little light bulb pings on if the boot's on the other foot!
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Post by ellieraga on Dec 3, 2008 9:59:18 GMT
 whats that old saying, treat them mean and keep them keen , not saying i believe it though
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Post by hottoddy on Dec 3, 2008 10:31:14 GMT
My God when you get a bit older and live together you will cherish the times they are out!! Your last couple of days sounds like peaceful bliss to me!!!
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Post by flagmountmolly08 on Dec 3, 2008 14:46:40 GMT
my fella is 27 and still plys on his playstation and snow ball fights. he wants to go sledging!
emma, my advice. live your own life, dont be on call and dont jump when the click there fingers. and dont try and change them!!
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Post by pigsear on Dec 3, 2008 15:27:42 GMT
Being a man I know the never grow up...... you just have to deal with them in the best way you can!
I let mine walk all over me and then he thinks he has the upper hand...... then when he's not on the ball I do what I want or need without him knowing!!!
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Post by wendbarry1 on Dec 3, 2008 17:38:57 GMT
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Post by wendbarry1 on Dec 3, 2008 17:42:49 GMT
Being a man I know the never grow up...... you just have to deal with them in the best way you can! I let mine walk all over me and then he thinks he has the upper hand...... then when he's not on the ball I do what I want or need without him knowing!!! Pigsear, you are naughty! What's that saying "trreat them like mushrooms, keep them in the dark and feed em on b******t!! |
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Post by Cherrytop & Spicery Stud on Dec 9, 2008 10:37:51 GMT
Just shopped mine man off to golf. Keeps him happy and out of my hair for a fue hours
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Post by morwenstowstud on Dec 15, 2008 2:11:08 GMT
Look at it this way, while he's out playing snowballs and x box with his mates, he's not messing about with other girls  Could be worse. |
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Post by valentyneponies on Jan 2, 2009 10:14:58 GMT
have you got you own horse?,,, if so treat you horse/pony to a good groom ride etc,,, get a i pod/mp3 player etc and switch phone to silent. when you get into grooming hacking to music and fussing your pony you will find 2/3hours will go by wihout a second thought then you can text him asking when hes free as you can make...i.e. wed, fri, sat afternoon etc blag him and you will end up blagging yourself....meaning eventually you will enjoy the time he isnt there =) promise my fella is kicked of the yard lol my time and horses he he he and he hates it all of a sudden mucks out and wants to help out???) dont be a fool though just be poliet and even if you want the help wait until you need it ...say no its ok I like doing my horses,,,,,you go have fun I'll call ya when im finished etc....
hope it helps =)
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Post by mandymoo on Jan 2, 2009 16:35:27 GMT
Cherish your time on your own as some day you will have to live with them. I'm lucky (even though i live with him) i work shift so always have a couple of days off in the week and every other weekend off, which means i can spend all day at my parents with the horses. and then when we are together on our weekend off or evening it means more  . Remember you have friend's and hobbies as well as him so enjoy your life ur still young. He probably feels he's got it made girlfriend on call, wrapped round his little finger. So why you sit and wait like a good little girlfriend he goes and has all the fun. Go out and have fun that will make him feel threatened as he'll think you don't need him and he'll want to spend time with you. |
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Post by valentyneponies on Jan 8, 2009 23:55:12 GMT
Cherish your time on your own as some day you will have to live with them. I'm lucky (even though i live with him) i work shift so always have a couple of days off in the week and every other weekend off, which means i can spend all day at my parents with the horses. and then when we are together on our weekend off or evening it means more . Remember you have friend's and hobbies as well as him so enjoy your life ur still young. He probably feels he's got it made girlfriend on call, wrapped round his little finger. So why you sit and wait like a good little girlfriend he goes and has all the fun. Go out and have fun that will make him feel threatened as he'll think you don't need him and he'll want to spend time with you. SPOT ON .... I AGREE X |
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) so left him all day so he could go and see his mates and have snow ball fights, you wouldnt think he was 16! Then phoned him at about 4ish so see if he was coming out - he was at his mates playing Xbox. Thought 'fair enough' and told him to come down soonish but dont hurry or anything. Phoned him again at like 4.50 and he was having a snowball fight and for me to go down. I hate snowball fights and he knows I do 
and he said he isnt 'staying in' tonight cause the snow is too much fun! 
Could be worse.
. Remember you have friend's and hobbies as well as him so enjoy your life ur still young.