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Post by perfect on Jun 17, 2009 12:22:32 GMT
why do people agree to sell items at a price and then get offered more so ask you for the same price, when already paid paypal, then refund your money and you loose out because paypal take a percentage. BUYER BEWARE
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Post by sarah00000 on Jun 17, 2009 13:46:57 GMT
Thats terrible! Was it a HG sale?
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Post by nativeponies on Jun 17, 2009 14:00:11 GMT
i was trying to buy a pony...£750..paid deposit, tells me she has sold it because offered more money, fair do's sent me deposit back but really pi**ed me off. guess what..pony still on the market as other people backed out of buying it!! still really want it but dont trust her not to do the same again!!
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Post by cayo on Jun 17, 2009 14:20:58 GMT
she had no buisness selling it she had a contract to sell to you with your deposit cheeky i wouldnt have it off her now only if she accepted less than original offer and wouldnt pay deposit either
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Post by nativeponies on Jun 17, 2009 14:40:22 GMT
i know the cheeky cow!! i really love the pony too!! such a shame people have to get greedy cos now she still has it and i have missed out!! what can i say...people sometimes!!!!!! grrr!! bet she feels really stupid now, had to laugh when she called me back and said people had pulled out of sale and did i still want it!! mad cow!
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Post by bowditchblobs on Jun 18, 2009 14:40:29 GMT
You could have had her for that np, blooming cheek of some people.
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Post by nativeponies on Jun 18, 2009 15:05:54 GMT
trouble is i havent the energy!! was sooo pee'd off about it though and had got everything ready for his arrival...worst thing is this is the second time this has happened!!! went out and bought the last one tack, rugs, the lot!!! lost loads of money, then a week, or less before xmas she says no longer selling, he was meant to be my then tiny daughters xmas prezzy!!!! heart broken, she knew we had bought him too!!!! x
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Post by sarah00000 on Jun 18, 2009 19:12:21 GMT
thats terrible, but Yes I agree, it DOES HAPPEN. You get the totally genuine BUYERS/SELLERS which can be dealers or private alike. They tell the truth and stick to their guns, all goes to plan and everything they promised turns out to be the truth.
Then there is the other type, that upset, dissappoint and LIE, without the hint of concience, that end up hurting and upsetting innocent people who trusted them.
Sadly, this will never change. You have to go with your gut instinct on trusting people and if they let you down, its not your fault, for being MORALLY SECURE ENOUGH TO TRUST.
If you never trust anyone again, you end up becoming some sad "chip on the shoulder" person, as a result of inferior people affecting you badly. Better to remain trusting in a sensible/informed way I think......
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Post by nativeponies on Jun 18, 2009 19:22:57 GMT
your right lovepink..makes it very hard to trust when everytime you have its gone belly up though! we have been messed about so much by buyers and sellers...changing minds at the last minute, we had one lady say she'll be there at 12pm, with the cash to collect the pony, never turned up no call, nothing...i always give people the benefit of the doubt, but i dont let anyone walk over me twice!! x
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Post by sarah00000 on Jun 19, 2009 4:39:14 GMT
Some people are just cowards. Too embarrassed to phone and say that have changed their minds! You would still be peed off, but at least if they rang, you would have some warning.
If I am feeling cowardly about telling someone something, TEXTS are a marvelous invention LOL
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Post by nativeponies on Jun 19, 2009 11:36:39 GMT
lol..they are!! i'd appreciate even just a text sometimes!!x
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