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Post by PdOff on Oct 18, 2009 19:41:04 GMT
We are friends again as you say gtr121 life too short to be miserable. The horse has gone somewhere else to get backed, yipee, saves me from stressing and him getting narky lol. Did you get my payment Kayjayem lol ;D
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Post by kayjayem on Oct 18, 2009 19:44:01 GMT
Yep thanks - just booked my cruise to the Bahamas!
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Post by cassie30 on Oct 18, 2009 19:57:38 GMT
OOOOH bahamas, no "W" word there!! lol
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Post by kayjayem on Oct 19, 2009 8:45:55 GMT
OOOOH bahamas, no "W" word there!! lol No Bahamas either, I lied! Better than swearing though
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Post by cassie30 on Oct 19, 2009 8:55:12 GMT
Lol, could do with bahamas right now...no stress.
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Post by jenwalsh on Oct 19, 2009 9:05:03 GMT
to be honest i dont know if have a non horsey OH is the best thing, my OH has nothing to do with my horses. doesnt even come to the yard with me which is fine but he also doesnt get why i just cant pack up my stuff and go away for the weekend or go on holiday through the summer because i am competing etc or throught the winter because i have to muck out etc
he never complains about it because at the end of the day he knew who i was before we got together but i can see it bothers him sometimes espesh when all his friends are going away together as couples etc and he cant go because i dont have anyone to look after the nags.
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Post by kickon on Oct 25, 2009 23:08:58 GMT
Oh! Its not only me with the MAN (child) from Hell then
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Post by cassie30 on Oct 26, 2009 0:31:59 GMT
Kickon, all of them are from hell..
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Post by halfpass on Oct 26, 2009 8:52:03 GMT
I think I must be the luckiest person alive, I'm with my OH 24/7 we work from home, we do the horses together, holiday together, in fact were one is the other is not far away, in the 10 years we have been together we have had 1 argument. We are best friends and have a lot of respect for each other despite the age gap. So like I have said I should count my blessings.
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Post by cassie30 on Oct 26, 2009 9:20:02 GMT
Thats lovely HP, if only there were a few more like you guys around ay?
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Post by kickon on Oct 26, 2009 10:50:45 GMT
Yes I think your right cassie but this time I have really hit rock bottom He is only staying with me be cause I can keep a roof over his head. It was without doubt the worse thing I have ever done! (taking him on) I carn't believe I have been so stupid but I have always given people the benifit of any doubt and live to be very easy going. That seems to give them the right to poo all over me Again and Againt
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Post by kayjayem on Oct 26, 2009 20:20:59 GMT
So can't you get rid Kickon? Sounds like you'd be well shot.
ps there are some good ones - mine is(but don't want to sound smug)
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Post by cassie30 on Oct 26, 2009 20:30:28 GMT
Kickon, know how that feels hun, pm if ya need a chat xx
(being crapped on is what i do best!) xx chin up xx
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Post by kickon on Oct 26, 2009 20:53:45 GMT
Rrrr He dosn't speak or respond to anything but why would he while he can keep a roof over his head, gets fed etc? This is the worsed relationship I have ever had and your right I do need him to leave. Soon Im normally very happy and up beat but it getting drumed out of me. Still Im off hunting tomorrow so sod it Im going to have a good day. Just clipped my big boy again. So he is nice and smart ;D
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Post by cassie30 on Oct 26, 2009 21:03:50 GMT
Have a fab days hunting, hope it puts a smile on your face, tell him to **** off and mean it, not worth the oxygen they breathe those sorts, plenty of hostels around if it makes him homeless xx
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Post by kickon on Oct 26, 2009 21:38:05 GMT
He can go and stay with mummy! Problem is he has so much stuff!! It fill 2 stables, 3 garages and 1/2 abarn When I told him to go before!! He said he would burn my house down
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Post by cassie30 on Oct 26, 2009 21:47:47 GMT
Is nearly bonfire night if you are worried how much room his stuff takes up! a nice little bonfire will sort that out!!
Most all talk when they say those things, get some good friends round you, your family and go for it, you sound really down hun xx
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Post by kickon on Oct 26, 2009 22:38:12 GMT
Oh I'm ok Feel better now. Been sooo busy making everything purrrfect Have no one to nurse maid tomorrow. Shall I take damson brandy or gin? or strawberry vodka or sloa gin? ;D Better not drink to much or I will have to get off for a pee And I wouldnt be able to get back on ( 17.2)
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