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Post by heathers on Mar 22, 2010 16:26:17 GMT
i helped a lady out recently and she breeds ragdolls,she was looking at the pics through my canera and saw my cat pics so we started talking about her kittens and she GAVE me a pedigree kitten as it was birthday as well and my husband wouldnt let me have her.ive stamped my feet very hard and had the biggest pouts ever and he still wont give in.ive lost 3 cats in the last year due to old age and Lulu with her tumor which i reminded him of and he still wont give in.he is so mean  |
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Post by sarah00000 on Mar 22, 2010 17:34:32 GMT
OMG Heathers - have given you a FULL SYMPATHY Karma !
That is cruel , mean and wicked of him. I have never seen a ragdoll, but I hear they are lovely and make fab soppy lap cats?
Cant you hide her? LOL
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Post by jasper1 on Mar 23, 2010 14:38:50 GMT
I really cannot see the problem here, get an outside cattery, then put the HUSBAND in it!!!!
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Post by heathers on Mar 23, 2010 16:19:22 GMT
I really cannot see the problem here, get an outside cattery, then put the HUSBAND in it!!!! fantastic idea ;D |
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Post by duster on Mar 23, 2010 17:12:20 GMT
ignore the daft husband; he will grow to adore the cat!
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Post by sarah00000 on Mar 23, 2010 17:18:48 GMT
Yes, I agree.......once they give them a cuddle - hubbies go all mushy too!
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Post by Ziggy on Mar 25, 2010 10:54:10 GMT
jasper1, that is hilarious! I have been tempted to do that to my OH many times. He is not an animal love at all. Have had to fight like mad to get any pets we have. He has said when our cats and goldfish are gone we are not getting any more animals.
We'll see about that, I think! I was very naughty when we got our last kitten I said it would be put down if we did not give it a home, which was not the case at all as the lady in question loves her cats to pieces. He caved in then though.
Heathers your OH sounds as if he allows more animals around the place than my OH would ever allow. All those beautifull ponies you have, my OH would divorce me in a heartbeat. Not that I am standing up for your OH as I think he should let you have kitten!!
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Post by jasper1 on Mar 25, 2010 13:02:01 GMT
Luckily my OH knows his place, and you have to know how to PLAY these men. Is there anything that HE wants atm?, let him have it , then he OWES you! Mind you even I am up to my limit, 4 cats , 3 dogs and various other four and two legged creatures is enough , (untill i catch sight of one of those albino hedgehogs!!!)
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Post by frozzy on Mar 25, 2010 13:48:02 GMT
My OH was not fond of cats and insisted the cat went out every night,regardless of the worst of weather.
I was at a friends house one night when she had a medium visiting. She asked "who is David? because his father has sent him a message to stop being horrible to the cat"
I laughed and laughed, but thereafter the cat stayed IN at night and when he was PTS aged 18 after getting a cancerous lump it was my OH who gently held him and shed a tear when he buried him for me.
There is good in husbands really!! Work on him!
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Post by em on Mar 26, 2010 21:23:21 GMT
If its you who looks after the cat whats the oh got to moan about. Men they just like to think they are the boss.lol.
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Post by m@m on Mar 30, 2010 9:37:10 GMT
as a male i think if you just ignore him, bring the cat home and after an initial sulk, he'l get over it, because he'l have no choice, i think if certain things that would def work! lol good luck
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Post by heathers on Mar 30, 2010 11:25:39 GMT
ha ha m&m,dont know if i'm brave enough as he can have super sulks lol
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Post by sarah00000 on Mar 30, 2010 11:29:59 GMT
Sulky hubby Karma for you heathers! I wouldnt be brave enough to go against my husband either.........
You will get a new kitty soon, I am sure xx
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Post by seahorse on Mar 30, 2010 20:52:23 GMT
have an idea heathers will send you JJ for a week at the end you tell OH its either JJ permanently after hes wreaked your home demanded hugs all the time and sleep in the middle of your bed. Or a lovely new trainable kitten. JJ aka tree rat will be back with his mumma by day three.
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Post by m@m on Mar 31, 2010 9:54:47 GMT
just realised i missed out a word on my post you need to withhold what he likes if you know what i mean, your be too busy playing with ya kitten to even realise he's sulking, he'l give in, theres only so long you can sulk, well worth it for a ragdoll, there lovely cats, good luck
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Post by heathers on Mar 31, 2010 15:31:05 GMT
have an idea heathers will send you JJ for a week at the end you tell OH its either JJ permanently after hes wreaked your home demanded hugs all the time and sleep in the middle of your bed. Or a lovely new trainable kitten. JJ aka tree rat will be back with his mumma by day three. ha ha hubby has the cats under the quilt with him and plays with them all the time but saying that they dont wreck the house lol |
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Post by heathers on Mar 31, 2010 15:32:54 GMT
just realised i missed out a word on my post you need to withhold what he likes if you know what i mean, your be too busy playing with ya kitten to even realise he's sulking, he'l give in, theres only so long you can sulk, well worth it for a ragdoll, there lovely cats, good luck i like your way of thinking lol ;D |
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Post by heathers on Mar 31, 2010 15:39:16 GMT
i want one  |
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Post by sarah00000 on Mar 31, 2010 16:27:22 GMT
Beautiful xx
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Post by snowflake on Mar 31, 2010 20:07:58 GMT
OMG- JUST PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN AND GET ONE!!!!!! LOL
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Post by m@m on Mar 31, 2010 20:37:14 GMT
c thats you told you,v got to get it now or we will be disapointed lol
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Post by honeypot on Mar 31, 2010 23:14:13 GMT
My sister and her husband had 2 siamese, they have no children so they are their family. One died and my sister booked to have another one from a breeders litter. My brother in law went ballistic, told her on no account could she have another cat. They have been married 30 years and it really caused a rift. Well my sister went a head and got the cat and said if it came to it she would move out!!
When it came down to it, he had been so upset about the old cat dying he could not bear getting attached to another one. They say women are funny. Of course he now loves the new cat and they are still together.
Perhaps he doesn't like seeing you get upset when they are ill.
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Post by jasper1 on Apr 2, 2010 9:13:02 GMT
Agree with snowflake!!!! Just say the easter bunny bought it!  |
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Post by sarah00000 on Apr 2, 2010 9:15:27 GMT
LOL - I happened to find this pedigree Ragdoll kitten, lost and abandonned in the bushes outside.........bound to fall for it!
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Post by jasper1 on Apr 2, 2010 12:34:59 GMT
ERmmmm! wot kitten would that be then??? MEOW from under the quilt!!!
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Post by wombat1 on Apr 10, 2010 17:14:51 GMT
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