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Post by kittytrice13xox on Sept 12, 2010 18:34:09 GMT
i would just like to say that WHY cant some people not post rude, insuting and upsetting comments on horsegossip!? It has happened on several occasions and i wish it would end!It is really upsetting for people on the recieving end and after all showing is supposed to be enjoyable! I dont want to cause any fights in this just to let off steam....sorry
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Post by horseymadamz on Sept 12, 2010 18:38:04 GMT
i know exactly what you mean, some the comments i have read not towards me to others i have thought are very judgemental and opinionated, espacially when someone is asking for advice and people give advice back but in a horrible and patronising way end of the day we all began somewhere we werent born experts lol
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Post by bonnieheather on Sept 12, 2010 22:38:16 GMT
It's very disheartening, and it seems to be contagious :-(
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Post by icarus on Sept 13, 2010 6:41:40 GMT
I used to be a regular poster on here, but not so much now due to nastiness. Its a shame as this is a very informative forum with alot to offer.
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Post by Julie(luke3) on Sept 13, 2010 6:48:08 GMT
It is a shame that there are nasty comments, but with 12 000 members, not everyone is going to agree or get on. I think most people on here are lovely and try to help other's as much as they can. I for one love HG
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Post by bundle on Sept 13, 2010 8:11:06 GMT
It seems to be something in the culture now that people say the most dreadful things about people without any thought for how they might feel. Look at the celebrity magazines etc.
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Post by lucynlizzysmum on Sept 13, 2010 16:04:49 GMT
It is a shame that there are nasty comments, but with 12 000 members, not everyone is going to agree or get on. I think most people on here are lovely and try to help other's as much as they can. I for one love HG Have to say tho' - just because you disagree does not mean to say that you should be nasty! Have to say that sometimes comments can get a little over the top!
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Post by Onthebit on Sept 13, 2010 16:38:20 GMT
I have seen numerous postings of the such, but everyone I have met on here have been genuinley nice people. Its a shame a small minortiy can spoil it, but I do love this forum, x
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Post by kittytrice13xox on Sept 13, 2010 16:47:44 GMT
yes i agree comments can get too personal and offensive! Most people on here are rele nice but yes onthebit a small number of people spoil it x
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Post by Admin on Sept 13, 2010 17:21:26 GMT
Most of the users of the site don't post nasty comments (as in the title of the thread) Any one who thinks that is the case must only take on board the comments of people that want to have a moan. There are many positives to the site. Any one that does take part in this sport and has never had a gripe about it must be a special sort of person.
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Post by kittytrice13xox on Sept 13, 2010 17:55:03 GMT
yes sorry i didnt imply at all that every person posts horrible posts on this website sorry xx
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Post by horseymadamz on Sept 18, 2010 3:37:28 GMT
i have now become a victim of nasty posting lol someone feels they know me my life and what exactly im wanting horse wise etc that they feel they have to call me a time waster etc thing been i havent actually wasted anyones time as if i havent felt the pony is right for whatever reason i have politely said so and only asked a few questions regards a few ponies so would love to know how i am now a time waster? am i not allowed to look for a pony for my kids or a horse on behalf of someone? or am i just not allowed to ask questions about ones im interested in and just buy them knowing nothing about them? its pathetic why dont just pick on the actual time wasters!!!!
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