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Post by bonnieheather on Nov 15, 2010 16:47:45 GMT
Why do people always have to stick their nose in, back stab and stir behind your back??? It drives me mad!!!!
If we're all in this for the same reason - the love of horses - why do people feel the need to be so vindictive and nasty to each other??? If it's not in your own stable, please, keep your nose out!!!!
Thank You!
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Post by horseymadamz on Nov 15, 2010 17:30:12 GMT
who been doing that? on here? i would get used to it alot people give good advice and are nice about it and help out but then there always the others who think they know everything and been horse experts since the day they were born and never had to learn a thing themselves, and when it comes to showing side of things some people cant see the fun in it anymore all they see is the competitevness of it all and then turn into nasty self centred obnoxiuos people and its just not worth it and i dont see why people feel the need to be like that we all enjoy the same thing so shouldnt we help and be nice to each other
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Post by gladys on Nov 15, 2010 18:02:07 GMT
I think it goes with the territory  you have to rise above it, the people who get me are the ones who crave constant praise, and require constant flannel or your name is mud...laugh at them bonnieheather, because I'm sure others are laughing too ;D I once went to view a foal , nice enough but not for us , told this person thank you but no.....we then went and brought a foal from another person who unbeknown to us had fallen out with first person, well are name was mud , it was quite funny how many people jumped in until there was about 6- 7 people involved it was unbelievable you had to laugh.... especially when we we were told that if this person bumped into us she would tell us what she thought ...well i did bump into her and guess what she said........alright luvie .......alright luvie PMSL ;D |
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Post by quinny on Nov 15, 2010 20:09:50 GMT
People like that drive me crazy!!!
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Post by leeann on Nov 15, 2010 20:25:29 GMT
Just laugh at them that's what I do :-) :-) people like that are not worth P*****g on!
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Post by corrie on Nov 15, 2010 21:08:40 GMT
Unfortunately some people are never happy with their own lot no matter what they have, if you buy just say for instance, a £200 foal they will have to have bought a £2,000 one etc., they are just basically jealous  Rise above it you are better than them ;D ;D |
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Post by bonnieheather on Nov 15, 2010 22:56:10 GMT
Sorry, no-one on here!!! Just vindictive liars who will be seen for what they are!!!! Argh!!!
Do people have nothing better to do???!??!
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Post by chorro on Nov 15, 2010 23:02:46 GMT
Fraid they dont have anything better to do bonnieheather. I always say if someone is talking about me they are leaving some other poor sod alone. Learn to laugh and rise above it, its really not worth bothering yourself, people will figure them out in the end. And as corrie says jealousy often plays a part. |
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Post by leeann on Nov 15, 2010 23:03:05 GMT
Oh bonnieheather, just laugh like me as there are a lot of things going to come out in the wash!!!
Some people are sad and have sad lifes and yes have nothing better to do, keep your head up girl :-)
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Post by corrie on Nov 15, 2010 23:36:25 GMT
Oh bonnieheather, just laugh like me as there are a lot of things going to come out in the wash!!! Some people are sad and have sad lifes and yes have nothing better to do, keep your head up girl :-) Is that in you new washing machine  |
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Post by leeann on Nov 15, 2010 23:38:57 GMT
yup hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by sageandonion on Nov 16, 2010 10:39:43 GMT
It depends what is going on really. There was a case a while back where a horse was starving in its stable whilst other liveries with their well fed animals just walked by and 'kept their nose out'.
If it is to do with welfare then I absolutely do think people should stick their nose in.
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Post by bonnieheather on Nov 16, 2010 12:28:17 GMT
True - but nothing like that. Just someone being a lying, stirring, vindictive so and so, though fortunately there enough people with common sense around for him to be seen for exactly what he is!!! Hurrah and a big THANK YOU for those who are willing to stand up and say so on my behalf!! :-)
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Post by sageandonion on Nov 16, 2010 13:41:12 GMT
Do fill in the gaps bonnieheather. What has been going on?
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Post by bonnieheather on Nov 16, 2010 21:55:11 GMT
Yard owners/managers!!!!
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Post by beachbum12 on Nov 17, 2010 12:19:20 GMT
well I know you personally Bonnieheather and I say you are a lovely person so if anyone out there is giving you grief , dont waste another bit of brain energy on em hun xx hold your head up high , and ignore em they will soon crawl back under the stone so to speak !! ;D It goes on all around us , I personally hate it theres no need why cant the horse world have a bit more peace and love, humility, camraderie, whatever but sadly it doesnt...best to just ignore the minority who try to spoil things..just ignore em hun xx
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Post by bonnieheather on Nov 17, 2010 12:44:45 GMT
Thanks BB xxxxxxxxxxx
You're dead right!!!! xxxxxxxxxxx
Thank God for people like you xxxxxx
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Post by ToriAnne90 on Nov 20, 2010 12:03:18 GMT
Unfortunately it happens on a lot of yards, i have been on the same yard for 14 years and i have seen people like that come and go they never last they just move on and pee someone else off, thats there problem just lovebeng around your horse(s) and you wll be fine you dont need to listen to people like that or be near them just lift your head up high and as everyone says laugh |
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Post by kickon on Nov 28, 2010 11:39:07 GMT
after years of trying to help liveries Im now FREE  My horses are happier and behave much better! Im much happier ;D And Im better off as well because Im not subbing thier livery and mending fences and stable doors etc Oh and running a lorry. Also their not using my saddles for year's without cleaning it. AND I have not got some Idot sticking there nose in. Nothing worse than someone who thinks they know it ALL!! |
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Post by leeann on Nov 28, 2010 12:07:47 GMT
Kickon-loving your little pink elephant. I had people on my yard at home and you know what never again  , it's a shame because it spoils it for honest, genuine folk. I couldn't wait to get them off, they would use my haylage and feed because they couldn't afford to buy there own, it was so annoying because I would be doing my lot and end up doing there's to because they never landed up till the afternoon's! It was the happiest day ever when I kicked them off ;D! There should be more piece and happiness but some folk you can't be kind to. Bonniheather- I hope your feeling better about things, don't let them get you down keep smiling that's what I do :-) :-) |
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Post by rebel22 on Nov 28, 2010 19:19:41 GMT
been on livery yards where people have been like, that nice to your face then call u when ur backs turned i was always told you must be doing something right other wise they wouldn't be calling you luckily now got my own place bliss
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Post by bonnieheather on Nov 28, 2010 20:15:46 GMT
Thanks all, I have calmed down enough now!!! I love my new yard, and look forward to going down there now, wish I had moved there years ago - have even been riding in the bad weather!!!
Despite vindictive people's attempts to spoil things for me by ringing up the yard manager and spreading lies (dangerous lies at that) about me, I'm very lucky that the YM has chosen to treat me as he finds me and given me a chance!!!!
Have since learnt that this is not the first time this particular person has done this to people!!! Unbelievable!!!
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Post by ponymum on Nov 28, 2010 20:52:24 GMT
sounds like your YM has his own mind! Thankfully so! Glad it all ok, nothing more stressfull than not wanting to go to the yard xx
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Post by kickon on Nov 29, 2010 18:28:17 GMT
I have been to the stage of not wanting to go ion to my own yard before  Still Its all calm now ;D |
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you have to rise above it, the people who get me are the ones who crave constant praise, and require constant flannel or your name is mud...laugh at them bonnieheather, because I'm sure others are laughing too ;D
, it's a shame because it spoils it for honest, genuine folk. I couldn't wait to get them off, they would use my haylage and feed because they couldn't afford to buy there own, it was so annoying because I would be doing my lot and end up doing there's to because they never landed up till the afternoon's! It was the happiest day ever when I kicked them off ;D! There should be more piece and happiness but some folk you can't be kind to.
Still Its all calm now ;D