Unfair

[skypheonix]

I'm sorry but am the only person here who thinks it is wrong to victimise someone, I can't help feel that it is wrong to be so hurtful to someone that hasnt done anything wrong, yeah maybe some people think it's wrong to be at work and posting on websites but I don't think it is when I'm doing it whilst typing up ISUPs as there no one in so nothing else to do and as the employers don't mind why is it such a problem to others? Also why is it the moderators are leading by bad example behaviour like today should been left in the playground a long time ago they should be calming situations down and helping sort them out not making them worse. And overbent how in an 80 plus staff team am I supposed to find out who that user/users is? I don't know every single person just the ones on my rotation team and how from a user name am I supposed to know there names? Also it doesn't really seem right that a thread can just be locked Willynilly if someone doesn't like something said, all I have done is defend myself as I'm not in the wrong and think I have every right to do that, there have been lots nice people on here too don't get me wrong but feel this behaviour is something that should be addressed as it let's the site down, no doubt this thread may get closed as they won't like what I have said but I gotta get it off my chest

[eskvalleystud]

for goodness sake, why can't this person just be normal, what is the actual aim of leading all us nice folks up the garden path with a load of nonsense and lies!

from the voters register this person doesn't live in a 2million pound mansion so why join this forum and spin tall tales and take some of our lovely members for a ride??? why can't you just post as yourself - there is nothing to be ashamed of surely? you are far better being yourself than making things up about your life as you can't be happy and its certainly not fair on others who are decent folk on here

I really feel for the moderators and other forum users as it just seems to be one thing after another - life is too short to be a wonky donkey!

[icarus]

Yes it is wrong to be victimised but on the other hand it is very suss how you seem to be three people! as eskvalley says its unfair to lead other users up the garden path, so in this case mods are doing their jobs! unless you can prove otherwise....

[Admin]

Let me try and explain once again.

The system proboards uses allow the mods to run a check on each and every IP number registered on this site. Every user, every time they log on, log on with an IP number. When that number is run through the system and it comes back with two/three usernames we can be pretty sure these users are all on the same computer/address. We don’t have a problem with that. You can have more than one account according to our rules. What we don’t allow is the same IP to be used in the same thread, even more so when it is used on the same day. Regardless of your insistence that you only have one account, the mods will always do their job by questioning the validity of the user/users whose IP s match in the same thread.
I think the comments have escalated to the level they have due to your inability to take on board the fact that the mods won’t be swayed on the point.
Also I did offer to sort this matter through the pm system. As you know, I have tried to do this with you already.
Posting about the matter in a thread will not change our rules , and will only serve to make matters worse IMHO. This is my one and only post in this thread on the matter. I am sure our position on this matter and other cases such as this are crystal clear to all by now.

[sageandonion]

These ridiculous wild stories make me just feel rather sorry for you. However, it is irritating that you are duping well meaning and kind people who spend their time posting trying to help you. That is, of course, until they cotton on.

It is a shame, if you need attention, you can't get it by being a positive contributor to the site and abiding by the rules.

You are becoming very boring and predictable.

[Milliesmum]

My loyalty lies with the vast majority of truth telling rule abiding ordinary members of this site. Enough said.

[skypheonix]

One word cyber bullying, which can lead to forums getting shut down, admin I understand what your saying about IP addresses but like I have explained I'm one in like 80 odd people who work in that one building, it is not right that you continue to let users harass and victimise someone who hasn't done anything wrong I don't control what ever beefs you got with those other two users and don't want any part of it but I have been dragged in to it all because of a publicly used computer, I'm not bothered about chatting on same threads those other users who use this computer if that such a big deal what I am bothered about is the cyber harrassment towards me who hasn't done anything but be honest!!! My mum is looking into making a full complaint to admin and the ISP as she is furious at this whole matter and wants it sorting or she going to take things further, but then to you who are mums how would you like it to be your daughter been abused by a load of older women I don't think you would just sit back either, my mum wants to know other then PM other ways to speak with who runs this full sight

[Guestless]

Dec 23, 2010 9:23:20 GMT skypheonix said:

One word cyber bullying

You've typed it as two words!

If you click on Admin's name, then you will have access to an email address.

[Jenna]

skypheonix, i take it your still in work, thats one heck of a shift

[Guestless]

Dec 23, 2010 9:48:24 GMT Jenna said:

skypheonix, i take it your still in work, thats one heck of a shift

Who knows, but the IP she has been using for the past 24 hours doesn't match with anyones; it's one she used prior to that that links her with A N Other

[Milliesmum]

Look, you're not telling the truth about the computers you are using because you use two different ones, we can tell this from the IP. The one that matches the other usernames is the one you seem to use in the early hours of the morning. I'm not bullying you, but it's plain to me you are not telling the truth, even in the same username you contradict yourself.

Now if you want to contact Admin about all this, fine, I think you'll find that admin has already made his position clear. I have tried to give you advice, i.e. be yourself and tell the truth, but you have chosen not to take this advice. People on here will forgive most things, but they don't like being lied to.

[Milliesmum]

Dec 23, 2010 9:23:20 GMT skypheonix said:

My mum is looking into making a full complaint to admin and the ISP as she is furious at this whole matter

How did your mum see this site if you don't have a computer at home? Or does she work at the same place as you as well?

[brindlerainbow]

Compulsive liars need to be very clever to avoid tripping themselves up.....................I'd give up if I were you

[Admin]

Right I will lock this thread as I am financing it all a bit tedious.

As for the people you say are guilty of cyber bullying, you need to make sure that these people are not just offering advice before making such accusations.
Accusing someone wrongly could actually backfire on you.
You would be best taking the advice given to you by myself via the pm system.