bullying

[joker]

hello

bully's off my previous farm, they have caused me a lot of unnecessary problems, yet even though i have moved they still seem to be following me, even on here.... they have had people spy on me on facebook, its gotten beyond ridiculous and is so bloody childish!!

i think they dislike me because i hate showing, no offense to showers out there but its not my thing i like showjumping and eventing.. but of course there all big showing fanatics...
another thing is I'm not as well off as them having been brought up on a council estate and still living on one with my family, so my morals tend to differ.. why is it people look down on you for this?

just because i don't have money piling out of my bank account doesn't make me a bad person....
another moan I'm going to have is the fact that they don't approve of the way i bring up my children, i am incredibly strict and i disagree with spoiling them and giving in to there demands, so many people have told me how happy, polite and help full my son is, yet these people frown upon me shouting at him when hes done something incredibly stupid around the horses, i could say alot about one particular woman's daughter, she has been spoilt all her life, she doesn't even know how to fill a hay net!!!

I'm just sick and tired of it now, these types need to be put a stop to..

if you don't like me then don't talk to me, leave me alone, as i certainly wont be losing any sleep over you

moan over

[nightwish]

Hi i really feel for you, ive been in this stuation before, and people still do it now, keeping an eye on me on facebook etc.... utter rubbish and they havent got anything better to do with there time, its them wasting time not us, well said the last bit. xx

[Native Lover]

"i could say alot about one particular woman's daughter, she has been spoilt all her life, she doesn't even know how to fill a hay net!!!" Thanks for that glowing character reference.
I know I'm really lucky for that my parents 100% support me in everything I do. Including my horses. It is such a crime! & yes I do know how to fill a hey-net.

[sageandonion]

I found your post slightly uncomfortable and therefore had a look at your previous posts. Perhaps you don't realise, but you have a way of putting things that isn't exactly friendly.

Now this isn't having a go and bullying you. If you would like your situation to improve, try being open minded and look at how you might come across to people, particularly the people you refer to as 'these types'.

[anniemum]

Joker, If you hate showing then why did you take my trailer without my permission last February to a show? I was abroad at the time and you didn't realise I would find out. I had told a friend she could borrow it, so you removed from the yard the previous day so they wouldn't be able to take it on the morning of the show. I have plenty of witnesses to this.

[sageandonion]

If that is true, then Joker you most certainly are That is theft.

[joker]

sageandonion you are right i can be quite blunt in the way that i write things, i will take you point in this...

as for the others you seem to know me but yet i don't know you? and i have no idea who or what you are referring to.
perhaps you have me mistaken for somebody else?

[Milliesmum]

Joker from your other usernames you have used on here, you have made it quite simple for people to find out who you are. There has obviously been an issue on a previous yard as I am getting PM's from both sides.

Can I suggest that you sort this out between you via the PM system, as it makes quite uncomfortable reading for everyone else, and it does seem to be a personal matter.