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Post by kayjayem on Oct 6, 2012 21:06:24 GMT
Chin up Hats! Onwards and upwards, this time next year you'll be liberated  |
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Post by haggismarmite on Oct 6, 2012 21:13:08 GMT
Hats sweetie you've been living the worst of both worlds for a while, you've been living like a single parent but without any of the perks x
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Post by dazycutter on Oct 6, 2012 21:13:26 GMT
Dazy - you are such a stick in the mud ;D Oh hahahaha your too funny.. any more smart remarks and you FO pictures will be going up LOL Luckily no horses on board at that point.. LASt time I help someone I dont know out... got to pay farmer to drag me out and god knows what the re turfing bill will be..... looked a right ness when we got back in the dark,,, |
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Post by hatman on Oct 6, 2012 21:13:49 GMT
I'm ok I just need a good nights sleep . Pleased to have the iPad back so will update regularly on my single life progress.
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Post by dazycutter on Oct 6, 2012 21:16:05 GMT
It also seems after an eventful evening I have lost the ability to spell and type. Lol
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Post by kayjayem on Oct 6, 2012 21:55:24 GMT
It also seems after an eventful evening I have lost the ability to spell and type. Lol Oh no Dazy! You have shiraz induced dyslexia of the metacarpal  |
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Post by cheetham on Oct 7, 2012 8:15:45 GMT
morning all,
im up before amwap,i wonder if she went out last night....
nice and sunny here.
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Post by brindlerainbow on Oct 7, 2012 8:17:49 GMT
Morning all  Just had a quick catch up with what you were all up to last night, well done to the SHP's. Hats crack on you are doing fine xx. Dazy she looks to be going very well I've turned Ruby back out now, she's done a bit of long reining,lunging and been sat on a couple of time though im taking her and Eris to horse agility next weekend Had the most lush pizza ever last night, 4 cheese with raw shredded onion served on a square slate tile!! For dessert was croissant and butter pudding with vanilla ice cream, maple syrup and apple and cinnamon stuff.Feeling very fat this morning |
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Post by starlight on Oct 7, 2012 9:29:56 GMT
morning.... sunny and frosty here this morning  dazy your poor purple passion wagon, hope she is not too dirty... excited as this afternoon going to take the kids for a walk around "our" field to check outer fencing ;D ;D |
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Post by hatman on Oct 7, 2012 12:37:30 GMT
OH seems to have disapaired I have no idea where he has gone. Not seen him since yesterday morning .
That's exciting starlight
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Post by haggismarmite on Oct 7, 2012 13:12:16 GMT
Oh no Hats - have you secured your bank accounts?
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Post by brindlerainbow on Oct 7, 2012 13:23:21 GMT
Yes Hats, Haggis is right make sure he can't get his hands on anything that is yours and anything that you own jointly should be split equally down the middle. Chilly here today OH has just lit the fire |
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Post by olliemat on Oct 7, 2012 14:21:14 GMT
hats Do you think he could possibly have been seeing someone??
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Post by hatman on Oct 7, 2012 14:27:09 GMT
I have my own bank account . We did have a joint account but changed it last year.
A friend who lives down the road is moving to Wadebridge next month and has 2 big bedrooms spare so she has said I can move in with her so I can save for a deposit.
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Post by brindlerainbow on Oct 7, 2012 14:32:09 GMT
Ah thats nice Hats that your friend has offered you and your girls a room. Get your own house on the market ASAP though so you can then get yourself a permanent place where you can all be settled xxxx Chin up you are doing great and showing how strong you are Where is Viking  |
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Post by dazycutter on Oct 7, 2012 15:49:16 GMT
Morning all Dazy she looks to be going very well Thanks hun... if she is this good after only being sat on 3 times, cant wait for next year.. she will be awesome... Its lovely when they are broken properly nad not rushed... Everything with this girl has been done slowly and carefuly... results show I guess... |
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Post by dazycutter on Oct 7, 2012 16:12:01 GMT
OH seems to have disapaired I have no idea where he has gone. Not seen him since yesterday morning . ooooh, maybe he has gone and left you the house!!!! |
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Post by dazycutter on Oct 7, 2012 17:09:30 GMT
BR, will you please give me a life in lost bubble.. waiting all week now to go to the next level.. LOL
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Post by brindlerainbow on Oct 7, 2012 17:10:40 GMT
LOL Dazy will do it now!!
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Post by dazycutter on Oct 7, 2012 17:13:07 GMT
LOL BR thank you  |
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Post by dazycutter on Oct 7, 2012 17:16:18 GMT
whilst your on a roll, need one for bubble witch as well.. PMSL
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Post by hatman on Oct 7, 2012 17:36:10 GMT
He has returned now. Im feeling stressed again now. Im also feeling cross with him he just went off without a thought for me and the girls. The thought of him being with someone else upsets me so i hope he is not.
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Post by sageandonion on Oct 7, 2012 17:49:10 GMT
hatman, listen well. The very worst insult to us as women is that our partner has gone off with another slip slapper and we are happy to be in denial. We seem to be able to cope with most else. However, it has to be said, men are so very weak that they cannot for the most part find the strength to end a relationship unless they have some stone to craw under. That stone is the slip slapper.
I want you to prepare yourself for that and be ready. You comfort is, in due course, the same thing will happen to her.
Please make an appointment to go and see someone from the housing department at the council and the CAB, there is help out there.
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Post by brindlerainbow on Oct 7, 2012 17:53:27 GMT
Hats you have hit the nail on the head - he went off without a thought for you and the girls which says it all really. Try not to feel stressed although it is hard. He is a thoughtless bas*ard. Remember no doing his cooking,cleaning or washing he is on his own now. He has made the choice to end his relationship with you and he must accept the consequences. Stay strong and remember you are starting a new exciting phase of your life, something for you to look forward to xxxxx
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Post by dazycutter on Oct 7, 2012 17:57:01 GMT
Hats, don't waste another tear. Most men will never leave, it's always the woman that kicks them out. Get rid, change the locks and start to live again
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Post by sageandonion on Oct 7, 2012 17:58:22 GMT
Hatman, so want to make you feel better. I do understand how awful you feel.
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Post by kayjayem on Oct 7, 2012 18:20:00 GMT
Hats please be strong and if you have a little wobble think of how he is and has treated you. It sounds as though he is playing games, don't give him the satisfaction of responding, act as though you hadn't noticed he'd gone(or come back). Detach yourself from him and keep on with your plans, the sooner he is out on his ear and you can move on with your girls and get your life back the better. Hugs to you.xx
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Post by brindlerainbow on Oct 7, 2012 18:49:17 GMT
I've got a bit of a sore throat  There is a dreadful lurgy going round, a horrible flu thing so I hope im not getting that. Supposed to be going cubbing tomorrow and Tuesday so I need to be healthy and then its horse agility on Saturday |
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Post by kayjayem on Oct 7, 2012 18:53:18 GMT
Horse agility sounds interesting Brindle what do you do?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2012 19:00:40 GMT
Thinking of you Hats - must be an awful feeling - but please listen to everyone on here and take the ascendance - don't let him dominate you (sorry - no references to shades of grey intended!) xxx
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Just had a quick catch up with what you were all up to last night, well done to the SHP's. Hats crack on you are doing fine xx. Dazy she looks to be going very well 
There is a dreadful lurgy going round, a horrible flu thing so I hope im not getting that. Supposed to be going cubbing tomorrow and Tuesday so I need to be healthy and then its horse agility on Saturday