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Post by sageandonion on Oct 11, 2010 18:05:00 GMT
LP sorry girly, no time to be stressed and depressed, you shall have to look after your hubbie. Get out of bed tomorrow, slap the foundation on the circles, put on your lippy and lift your chin.
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Post by victoria (highhill) on Oct 11, 2010 18:16:18 GMT
well i have sent a message through his website which he says he will reply to as soon as he can - so we'll see if he does
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Post by sageandonion on Oct 11, 2010 19:10:42 GMT
I do think that if anyone wants to post a message on his site it may be better to pm lovepink with what you are going to say first. We all know how funny families can be. Absolutely no mention of horse gossip, let us tread carefully please.
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Post by brindlerainbow on Oct 11, 2010 19:12:01 GMT
I dont know what to say about him, im bloody speechless.Cut him out of your life this second, you dont need him and his selfish ways.Now its going to be hard but pick yourself up,dust yourself down,hold your head up and carry on. Remember we are all with you every single step of this hideous journey.Massive hugs xxxxx
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Post by sageandonion on Oct 11, 2010 19:12:10 GMT
Oh my goodness LP our posts crossed. Now please please just sit down quietly and take some deep breaths. It needs to be dealt with but not right now.
Hold my hand tight.
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Post by Julie(luke3) on Oct 11, 2010 19:18:30 GMT
He is a disgrace!!!!! Absolutely disgusting  LP I have pm'd you xx |
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Post by emma3870 on Oct 11, 2010 19:21:01 GMT
LP I don't know what to say. personally I would be straight on the phone to a solicitor and the PCC and the police. it is verging on harrassment if nothing else.
what a git. it's one thing making a living out of those you don't know but to carry on like he is with his own flesh and blood is appalling
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Post by daizylindsay on Oct 11, 2010 19:29:24 GMT
I looked at his blog today and TBH he comes across as a tosser. Let him have his five minutes of fame and ignore everything he writes/does/says. You are better off without him by the sounds of things. I think he is on some kind of egotistical power trip it's just s shame he is doing these things against your wishes. X x
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Post by emma3870 on Oct 11, 2010 19:33:58 GMT
I see there is a 24 hour helpline for media harrassment. go ring it. start the ball rolling
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Post by starlight on Oct 11, 2010 19:34:47 GMT
LP so sorry you are having to go through all this at this time. Hold your head up high and do not let anyone including your brother (who is a complete to**er in my opinion) make this time even more difficult than it already is. (email me if you want to or i can go kick his ass for you instead)
love and hugs B xx
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Post by hp on Oct 11, 2010 19:38:05 GMT
LP I am sending you all the hugs I can. The man is a tosser. I too have a brother who is one of those. If there is absolutely anything I can do I will. I promise.
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Post by fox111 on Oct 11, 2010 19:43:44 GMT
looks like your message was put across well seems he has removed it all - such a shame he had to take advantage of young jamie to have his minute of fame ... shame on him and i hope you can find some peace ...... look forward to xmas jamie will be looking over you - xxx
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Post by dazycutter on Oct 11, 2010 19:44:16 GMT
one word for him... TOSSER... XX
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Post by Nightshirt1111 on Oct 11, 2010 19:44:50 GMT
It's off LP but still not nice in the first place xx Thinking of you all xx
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Post by victoria (highhill) on Oct 11, 2010 19:45:38 GMT
The PCC is www.pcc.org.uk/complaints/makingacomplaint.htmlHe is campainging to get rights for bereaved parents to stop being hounded by the press. He is a journalist himself and he is refusing to remove photos and articles about my dead son from his business website. I told him the only comment from our family is no comment and I never gave him permission to use these photos of my dead son who was just 9 years old.... I have already done this , it is very easy to do on line. And as said above LP ring that 24 hour media harassement line His website is www.chriswheal.com/blog/ |
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Post by brindlerainbow on Oct 11, 2010 19:45:51 GMT
LP have just been on his blog and it says that at 8.38pm tonight he has removed the posts about his nephews death
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Post by brindlerainbow on Oct 11, 2010 19:46:59 GMT
I cant see the pics on there any more
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Post by ilovenatives on Oct 11, 2010 19:47:23 GMT
When i clicked on his site it says its been removed as it was causing hurt [has he only just realised ]
Cant begin to imagine what you have been through LP you really dont need this .
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Post by victoria (highhill) on Oct 11, 2010 19:47:58 GMT
LP have just been on his blog and it says that at 8.38pm tonight he has removed the posts about his nephews death Good xxx |
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Post by gwynsmum on Oct 11, 2010 19:48:13 GMT
LP, I started several replies and erased them again. I just put 2 and 2 together from your posts and from the local news. (I am quite close to you).
Your brother is a parasite and how he can sleep at night is beyond me. However, I strongly believe in karma.
What you have gone through and are going through, I can not imagine and wouldn't wish it on anyone.
I only have contact with my dad, after my mum committed suicide. Lots of nasty things were said after she died by members of my family, including my brother. However, I have had so much support from many friends that I don't need my family, they can drop of this earth as far as I am conserned.
Remember, you can't chose your family, but you can chose your friends.
Big hugs to you, your husband and Sam.
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Post by fox111 on Oct 11, 2010 19:48:30 GMT
LP would like to add even though i dont know you personally i 100% admire you, jamie would be so proud of you please keep up your strength we are all wishing you strength at this awful time .... you are an inspiration to us all if you ever need anything you have an army of friends xx
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Post by ilovenatives on Oct 11, 2010 19:48:32 GMT
Looks like we all cross posted
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Post by daizylindsay on Oct 11, 2010 19:55:40 GMT
Glad he has done the right thing finally! Sounds like he had no idea he was causing so much pain he probably thought he was really helping.
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Post by sageandonion on Oct 11, 2010 20:06:12 GMT
Yes he is so vain and into himself, he can't possibly think outside of that and about the people that matter. Note removed the blog about HIS nephew.
Very sad indivdual and no talent as a journalist otherwise he would not need to focus on this to make himself feel important.
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Post by 4emms on Oct 11, 2010 20:08:05 GMT
Well, what a hypocrite and self-serving fool! Hope he has honestly realised the damage his conduct has done.
BTW - perhaps he needs to employ a proof-reader for his website, not very professional to have spelling mistakes and grammatical errors for all to see, even if they could be just typo's.
LOL
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Post by gwynsmum on Oct 11, 2010 20:53:52 GMT
Everyone has a different way of dealing with grief, however they should respect your wishes as Jamie's mum and your husband and Sam.
They are being very selfish and disrespectful and there is no excuse for that.
How can you rebuild your life when you have twonks like them to deal with. It is bad enough complete strangers poking their nose in, the press etc, nearly getting glory (can't think of the right word) on someone else's grief and loss.
They need to leave you and your husband and son to grief, to someone get back into a routine and maybe having no contact with them is what is required. Put your energy in your little family and yourself, you and they deserve and need it.
xx
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Post by victoria (highhill) on Oct 11, 2010 20:54:03 GMT
Sarah - leaving Jamie on is own to play outside in your own garden at the age of 9 was not wrong. It was a freak accident which nobody could have forseen or prevented xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by 4emms on Oct 11, 2010 21:02:11 GMT
Oh LP, let them go to h*ll!
You have a lovely hubby and son and that is all that you need, (and in that you have much more than others). You cannot allow yourself to be treated like this by anyone. You gave your parents/brother a choice - they made their decision, that is not your fault, just like Jamie's accident was NOT your fault.
You have every right to be incensed and furious at them - let the anger out if it helps stop you getting distressed. Go and punch pillows, smash plates or whatever it takes until your arms ache, hopefully it will help keep the tears away from Sam.
We'll all be here for you whatever or whenever you need us.
xx
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Post by ponymum on Oct 11, 2010 21:06:36 GMT
my solicitor is dealing with a case for someone on here I referred them to him as he is predominantly an employment law solicitor, but he is also helping me with problems with the settlement of my mums will as my brother is not particularly carrying out her wishes.....  im sure he will be able to advise you and point you in the direction of a collegue that can help.....so sorry you have to deal with this after all your recent trauma, much love xxxxxxxxxx pm me if you would like his number or text me xx |
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Post by horsepatrol on Oct 11, 2010 21:10:38 GMT
LP you have done nothing wrong - I am a lawyer, I have PMd you
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